If she's a serious actress in highbrow movies, your wife might just allow that celebrity crush of yours, because it shows your discerning taste in women. Here are a few crushes that get the spousal seal of approval:

Rachel Weisz - With her timeless beauty, intellectual credentials, and roles in serious films, she's a safe bet. Just don’t mention those steamy scenes in 'Disobedience' or the fact that her husband is James Bond.

Carey Mulligan - Soft-spoken and smart, married to a Mumford, she’s the embodiment of understated elegance. Your wife approves because it suggests you appreciate subtlety, not just Instagram models. And yes, she knows about that account.

Adele - Finding Adele attractive shows you’re sensitive and appreciate authenticity. Your wife thinks it means you see women for who they truly are. Just don’t share those deeper fantasies.

Keira Knightley - Known for period dramas and literary adaptations, she represents the 'classical English rose look'. Mention 'A Dangerous Method' for its intellectual merit, not the spanking.

Pamela Anderson - Not the 90s bombshell, but the current feminist icon with a no-makeup rule. Forget the Playboy days, she’s nice now.

Thandiwe Newton - Stylish and articulate, she’s a high credit crush. Your wife believes she’d adore you, if only she visited your hometown. But don’t hold your breath.